How to Set Goals

It's a cool evening at Ken's place. I went to greet him after many months of not hearing from him. As I approached his house, I noticed a young man sitting outside on a plastic chair, with his hands on his head. I drew closer to him to have a better view of his identity. ————————————————————— Me: Ken is that you?🤨 (No response) Me: Kennedy! Ken: (Jolts in shock) Jesus Christ! 😳 Me: Nor be Jesus dey call you, na me dey call you🙄 Ken: eee......EB na you be this?😯 (EB is abbreviation for my name Ebenezer) Me: Isssme don tay since when I last hear from you, so I say make I reach your side😁 Ken: Omo! Na here I dey oh...this year don finish like this😪 Me: Wetin happen? Ken: I no fit talk one better thing wey I don achieve this year😪 Me: "One thing" oh, just "one thing" Why are you exaggerating na😏 Ken: Okay....okay.....but you understand what I'm talking about.. So many bad things happened to me this year😢. Please sit, sorry for keeping you

3 Ways To Deal With Your Inner Critic

Before I uploaded my first post on this blog, I had a lot of inner struggle like a battle in my mind as to whether to post it or not, and this is because of something called the 'inner critic'.  Now when we hear of this we usually associate it with a very bad or unpleasant emotion but that's not entirely what it is. So what is it? What is the inner critic? First, to criticise means to evaluate or analyse someone or something to make a positive or negative conclusion.  The inner critic refers to an inner voice that judges, criticises, or demeans a person whether or not the self-criticism is objectively justified. It’s important to point out that your inner critic can be helpful . In what way? 1. Re-evaluation: It helps  you check your level of preparedness for something you're about to do. It prevents you from  walking into and encountering many avoidable dangers and unpleasant experiences. 2. Self-reflection: It makes us introspective and helps us  identify when we’re

How To Be Consistent In Anything

 Keeping up with your goals Photo by Fab Lentz on Unsplash Consistency simply means regularity. A consistent person is someone who always behaves in the same manner, has the same attitudes towards people or things, or achieves the same level of success in something. We actually find it very frustrating to know that we are not getting the outcome we desire from a particular action because we find it difficult to be consistent in doing that one thing that will help us achieve our desire. We are saddened by the fact that the only thing we try to be consistent in is starting an action, and then stopping midway before we see any results. The only reason for this lack of consistency is because we pay more attention to the desired results, rather than the process that will lead us to the desired outcome. These 5 steps will help you to be consistent: 1. Have a goal From Gifer Setting a goal first starts with idea. When you’ve got that strong idea of wh

3 Simple Ways To Discover Your Passion

   Photo by Erik Mclean on Unsplash A passion for something means that you have a strong, great and powerful emotion towards that thing.

Is It Enough To Just Love God?

Photo by Edward Cisneros on Unsplash Even in normal relationships, we often hear that love alone is not enough to sustain it.

Living Or Leaving?

  Photo by Taisiia Stupak on Unsplash Some people are actually leaving the earth and they do not know it.

12 Things God Cannot Do

  Photo by Samuel McGarrigle on Unsplash God is the sovereign and all-powerful, who can do absolutely anything and everything.

9 Ways To Develop Healthy Eating

Photo by Dan Gold on Unsplash Healthy eating habits helps to maintain a healthy weight, and promotes and maintains good health.

Are You Just A Matter Or Do You Matter?

  Photo by Jeremy Vessey on Unsplash According to science, matter is any substance that has mass and occupies space. So technically, we’re all matter.

Do These 4 Things To Wake Up Early

Photo by Damir Spanic on Unsplash Waking up early for some people can be a herculean task. But it is definitely not as difficult as it is, especially when it is beneficial to productive living.